Prostate milking: Everything you need to know to achieve a great orgasm

Prostate or popularly known as the P-spot is how men achieve orgasm. Have you ever wondered the reason behind your male partner’s intense orgasm? Stimulating their prostate is often considered to be one of the best ways to achieve a prolonged and intense orgasm.[1] It’s all about the presses. The better you do it, the better your partner will be able to achieve the orgasm.

Penile orgasms are sensual, excellent, and effective, but that isn’t the only limit. Men achieve orgasm through their P-spot as well. Well, this is one of the best ways that can help them achieve full-body orgasm. It acts as a test of what the men-pleasure can mean and achieve.

This walnut-shaped gland is responsible for creating seminal fluid.[2] However, it is one of the best ways to achieve orgasm and help you experience an intense sexual life.

What is a prostate orgasm?

Prostate orgasm is also referred to as prostate milking and is often considered to be one of the best ways to stimulate your partner. Prostate milking may sound a little unusual, but people have been doing it for long and for various reasons. Not only does it help to achieve an intense and great orgasm, but it also helps to improve the overall prostate health.[3] Believe it or not, but prostate milking can lower down the chances of developing prostate cancer to a great extent.

One of the greatest facts about prostate orgasm is that men can orgasm even without ejaculating. It is for this reason that men feel they can have multiple ejaculations without dropping semen. Well, not only does it intensify the orgasm, but it also helps to enjoy sex for a prolonged period of time.

Who can have a prostate orgasm?

Well, anyone with a prostate can experience the pleasures of prostate orgasm. Cisgender males and men can experience the joy of prostate orgasm mostly. But, hey, that doesn’t mean that others can miss out on it.[4]

Often trans women and non-binary people to have a prostate. People with uteruses do not have a prostate. The prostate is very much similar to the female G-spot.

People with prostate can experience the pleasure of prostate orgasm irrespective of the relationship status and sexual orientation. The prostate is meant to be your gland and does not determine you sexually, so you can be relaxed about it.

Your partner can stimulate your prostate, irrespective of their orientation, to help to experience the pleasure.[5] Older men, too, practice prostate stimulation because it helps them keep their prostate healthy.

Well, the prostate doesn’t age, so why do you want to miss out on the fun?

Where is your prostate?

If you are looking to experience the joy of prostate orgasm, it is essential to know where the prostate is. The prostate may not be visible to your eyes, but they aren’t hard to find either.


If you want to find your prostate, you need to reach the rectum. The prostate is located some 3-4 inches up the rectum and below the bladder. It is somewhere close to the belly button. It is not very wide and has a soft texture very much like a walnut.

The prostate can be easily located from the rectum so you can easily find it. Since the blood flow increases in the body during arousal, the prostate begins to swell up as well.[6] As a result, one can easily detect the prostate during this time since it is large, firm, and can be easily touched.


Externally locating the prostate can be a little difficult and isn’t much of a direct process. However, it is very much suitable for people who are not into anal penetration.[7] You need to touch the perineum, the area between your anas and testicles to locate the prostate gland. Sometimes the bulge may isn’t felt. Therefore, in such situations, it is necessary to take your partner’s consent and give a firmer touch, if required.

Does prostate milking hurt?

Well, if you are opting for prostate milking for the first time, it is going to hurt. You just need to adjust to the fact of anal penetration. Nonetheless, it won’t cause much serious pain. If you become habituated to it, prostate milking will be as healthy as any other penetration.[8]

What is prostate milking?

Prostate milking refers to the process of massaging your prostate until the liquid flows out. Since the liquid flowing out is a little milky in color, it is referred to as prostate milking.

It is officially referred to as prostatic fluid, the one that is ejaculated with sperm in it. Before the prostatic fluid, comes out a white milk-like substance. This is a sign that you are close to ejaculating, so keep going.

Stroking your penis once you notice the milk is considered to be a great sign. Well, it can take pleasure to the other level and will help you reach the climax faster.[9] Prostate milking is also the term used for a therapeutic prostate massage that is meant to manage the prostatic problems.

What are the methods?

Come closer

Lube your index finger and gently push it up to your anal region and curl your fingers and move it across the belly button. Based on your pleasure sensations, keep moving the fingers.


Circle up your fingers and rotate it around so that it reaches the glandular perimeters. You can alternate the position and speed depending on the pleasure requirement.[10] Also, ensure that you have allowed enough pressure to be built up for a comfortable position.


Do what you think a vibrator does the best. If you feel a particular move to be pleasing, keep repeating it. Initially, it may feel a little difficult, but once you get into it, this is going to be pretty easy. Also, it will help you achieve orgasm easily.


You know how to push a doorbell, and now that you want to stimulate the prostate, make sure to start the process similarly. The doorbell process can be pretty effective for pushing up against the anus too.

Are prostate massage and prostate milking the same thing?

Well, yes. If you massage your prostate, it is going to feel good as you massage it for milking.

Often people suffering from prostate problems are asked to undergo prostate massage therapy to ease the pain. This is also helpful for relieving the symptoms.[11]


Wondering what the benefits are of prostrate milking? Here are some of them.

  • Treats erectile dysfunction
  • Reduces the risk of painful ejaculation
  • Better urine flow
  • Cures enlarged prostate

Anal sex is not everyone’s cup of tea, but you should give it a try. This is surely going to help you achieve a full-body orgasm.[12] However, make sure that you maintain hygiene and safety while practicing this. Also, consent is the key, so don’t do it without consulting your partner.


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